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Law Of Attraction
One of the most frequent questions I am asked about using law of attraction is why is it taking so long to manifest what I desire? Some people feel it is because they are "doing it wrong". Others feel perhaps they don't "want it enough". Some feel they are "not worthy enough" or don't deserve to have what they desire.
What do all of these things have in common? First off, they are all limiting beliefs which hold the "believer" back by adding resistance. Secondly, they are negative! Negative vibrations attract negative issues, people and events. Is it any wonder that these people are not manifesting those things they desire?
When using law of attraction, emotion plays a huge role in what is attracted into your life. The law of attraction is a spiritual law, freely given to all. The law of attraction is not strictly about YOU. It deals with service to others. With that in mind, if what you desire is purely self serving, chances are you will have a more difficult time manifesting it. However, if your desire benefits others in addition to yourself, then your chances are far greater, providing your emotions and beliefs are in order as well.
An example of a self serving desire would be wanting to have a large volume of sales in your business so you would generate wealth for yourself. Let's look at this desire from a serving point of view. Let's desire a large volume of sales in your business which will help you serve your community by assisting your neighbors to live more comfortably, safely, or more physically fit, depending upon the services or products your business offers. Whether you are in real estate, finance, health and wellness, insurance, automobiles, or any other business, by focusing on serving others, you will achieve greater growth and rewards through the use of the law of attraction than if your desires are self serving.
The same holds true with EVERY aspect of using the law of attraction whether it be career oriented or personal. You must take into respect the bigger picture. Do you want to attract your life partner? Focus on the life the two of you will have, not just how happy you will be. Focus on what you plan to contribute to the life of the other person as well as what you desire to attract that person to bring into your life. Bring balance into your attracting. You already know that negative out brings negative in. By adding the element of service toward others, you truly bring your attracting into balance.
As in all of life, using the law of attraction included, there needs to be balance. Whether you are using law of attraction for business or using law of attraction for relationships, I believe that if you adapt this type of balance attractor factor, you will see a marked increase in the things you manifest as well as in the volume of things you are able to manifest in a relatively short amount of time.
So, the next time you find yourself wondering why you are not attracting those people, events or things you desire, check in with yourself and see which type of attracting your are using. Is it coming from a place of negativity? Is it self serving or one of serving others? The answers to these questions will make a huge difference in how you get there from here using the law of attraction.
©2009 Judith A. Wentzel, CTACC, EFT-ADV. Certified Life Coach, and Advanced EFT Practitioner specializing in personal performance, law of attraction & EFT who educates, liberates, & empowers clients enabling them to skyrocket their life or business. Unleash the power of coaching and shift your life from fine to FANTASTIC!
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